Maybe i'm just thinking too much like a feeder, but to me, that sounded like her giving you permission to fatten her up lol.
I know as a gainer, there is some guilt that comes from overeating and trying to gain, having someone like a feeder to direct or control this aspect of it and as a result making it no longer "my fault" has always sounded like a good excuse.
I'd discuss it with her again, from what I read here it really seems like she wants to lose due to society but would be happy to relinquish control of her food and her weight to you so she could be happy eating what she wants, not worrying about her weight and being secure in the fact that its not her fault and that you will love it and her regardless.
Of course though it could backfire and she could reach a size where the satisfaction of eating no longer outweighs her body image concerns. Then the whole "your fault" thing could be used to take her anger and frustration out on you and it may get nasty...
lol, talk to her about it, that's my advice, and maybe focus less on the idea of weight gain and more on her eating what she wants.
I know as a gainer, there is some guilt that comes from overeating and trying to gain, having someone like a feeder to direct or control this aspect of it and as a result making it no longer "my fault" has always sounded like a good excuse.
I'd discuss it with her again, from what I read here it really seems like she wants to lose due to society but would be happy to relinquish control of her food and her weight to you so she could be happy eating what she wants, not worrying about her weight and being secure in the fact that its not her fault and that you will love it and her regardless.
Of course though it could backfire and she could reach a size where the satisfaction of eating no longer outweighs her body image concerns. Then the whole "your fault" thing could be used to take her anger and frustration out on you and it may get nasty...
lol, talk to her about it, that's my advice, and maybe focus less on the idea of weight gain and more on her eating what she wants.
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